CaregIver’s Corner
by CBI’s Caring Community Chair, Allison Kaye
CBI’s Caring Community continues to embody the core values of our congregation that nurtures with integrity, respect, and compassion. This monthly writing intends to continue to build on our foundational community strengths, as we honor where we have been and continue to engage in sacred meaningful mitzvot that supports our spiritual communal CBI family.
Many of us espouse the belief that:
To give is to receive…
…and to receive is to give.
Author Unknown
With this in mind, let us remember the “I” in caregIver and the “I” in mItzvah. Observe the large “I”: not a little “i” contained within both words. Let us be reminded of the inextricable realities of self-care and caregiving as we take a moment to reflect on the words of Hillel, first-century Rabbi & scholar who wrote about Jewish perspectives that explore personal, family, & community responsibilities.
If I am not for myself, who will be for me?
If I am only for myself, what am I?
If not now, when?
In Pirkei Avot 1:14
Interpretation of Rabbi Hillel’s quote challenges us with the notion to find balance between self-care and care of others. For if I do not care for my basic needs of nourishment, that includes physical, emotional, & spiritual care, then who will? To be effective and serve others well, includes the ability to ensure that personal basic needs receive the same loving attention generously and often inherently bestowed upon others. If I am solo-focused and isolated from others, the pure joy of giving with sense of meaning that lays the foundational bricks and mortar of our Jewish community suffers. At the same time, recipients of care or care-receivers afford individual community members to perform mitzvot, to establish bonds, and to be a part of something larger than ourselves. With that in mind, Happy, Healthy New Year to all, as we continue in the tradition of our sacred congregation to recognize, acknowledge, and honor the “I” in caregIver as we engage in sacred acts of caregiving when opportunities arise. Subsequently, mItzvot abound and our Caring Community strengthens. As for Rabbi Hillel’s third line: When is now a good time to perform mitzvot and strengthen our Caring Community as both givers and receivers of care?
All congregation members who share interest in service to CBI’s Caring Community are encouraged to complete the enclosed Caring Community Volunteer Sign-Up Sheet and return to CBI’s office or feel free to contact Allison Kaye at info@ask-ada.com with your expressed interest, ideas, or suggestions.
(Reference: That You May Live Long: Jewish Perspectives on Caregiving,
Edited by Richard F. Address & Hara E. Person, 2003).